JULY 28, 2025

Only 10 days since my last entry. and it is indeed a Sunday, so I’m getting close to my proposal to blog every Sunday – 🙂

I’m beginning to think I am being scammed by Austin Macauley, the “publishers” of my book. I just returned to them the fourth “proofread.” This time my Amendments page included the preface: for the third time…

They have continued to leave out huge chunks of text and not return my paragraph formatting to the original manuscript.

I was listening to an interview on NPR the other day, and apparently this has become “a thing.” With so many people writing books using AI, these pretend publishing companies are cropping up and taking advantage of wannabe authors. I thought I did due diligence by getting an okay from my editor who has had two books published by them and also a fellow student who said that her book had some vocabulary issues because she’s from Texas, but ultimately she said it went okay.

The billing department said they were told by Production that my requests had been met and that I needed to pay up. I informed them that this was not true and told them about my need to ask for the same corrections, now for the third time. I also shared with them that I was starting to feel that I am being scammed. This is just too bizarre and unprofessional. We’ll see where it goes.

I learned recently that my car parks itself! I haven’t had a chance to try it yet, but it’s high on my list. A friend the other day said that perhaps I shouldn’t use this because I might lose my skills. Ha!! That’s very funny. It assumes that I had skills in the first place.

When I came out of the grocery store yesterday and was getting into my car, a young woman approached me to admonish me for parking so close to her car. She said that I parked so close that she could not enter her car from the driver’s side and had to crawl in through the passenger’s side. She was now parked across from me, but she decided to wait in the parking lot in order to show me a photo she had taken of the space between our cars. I thought, I could have gotten in there. Given her size, I refrained. I apologized and said that I would do better next time. So, now it seems that parking between the two yellow lines is not enough. Now I must be sure that I am parked as close to smack dab center as possible or I risk being scolded. I’ll see if the parking assistant can help me.

I’m on schedule with my training hikes. I walk Tuesday, Thursday and either Saturday or Sunday, 7 miles each time. It’s enough. I know Jolene and I will be walking more than that every day, but this Lapham hike is pretty challenging, so I don’t plan on doing much more than that. I plan to do a long one with Mary soon.

I walked this morning, and it was 90 degrees. It wasn’t too bad though. I just walked slowly. I met a couple I have seen before. They are planning a hike in Glacier Park in Montana. We were chatting in the community center where I stopped for water. He started talking about his training and mentioned that he was 67, sounding as though that were old. He asked how old I was, and when I answered 73, He said, “I thought you were in your 70s…” Bastard!! Wrong answer! You’re supposed to say, “Really?! I thought maybe 50.”

I think it’s funny how we all like to hear that we look younger than our age, and how many people believe that they look so much younger. Or worse yet when people say “guess” when someone asks them how old they are. Makes me cringe. I remember reading an article a woman wrote basically saying, “No, you don’t look younger, get over it.”

And the park continues to offer enchantment. I was going to try to identify these, but I’m too tired. Maybe some day. I’m particularly interested in the one that looks like a petunia. Any guesses?

I’d also like to identify this plant. I saw it in a doctor’s office. I was suprised that it was real. An app identified it as a Traveler’s Palm, but the photos didn’t match.

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I am now officially a certified calligrapher. We had our graduation ceremony on Friday. It was very nice. I thought we were going to see each other, but it wasn’t a Zoom, it was David in his home studio showing our certificates on You Tube. There was also a group chat going on, but it was hard to watch both at the same time. In any event, that phase of my calligraphy journey has ended. I am now signed up for class being conducted by Sneha. I think she is going to concentrate on the capital letters.

Here are a couple of pieces I just finished. The Autumn piece I did for Mickey. She wants to gift it to one of her favorite nurses who is pregnant and due in September. The baby’s name will be Autumn.

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This is for another friend, Anita Martin, from my Soul Matters class. I don’t think she reads the blog, so it’s safe to post it.

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The centering isn’t great; there should be more space at the bottom, but otherwise I’m happy with it. Anita’s favorite color is magenta.

Cordelia and Marie were here last Sunday (can’t believe a week has gone by already). We started working on the pine-cone flower project.

This is the goal:

Stay tuned…

Samantha bought a house in (or around) Boston. It’s so cute, and I’m thrilled for her.

I’ve been playing around lately with an AI app called Photo Revive. These were all still photos to which the app can add the action of your choice.

Some might say I need to get a job.

And last but not least, Kath;y stopped over today to give me a birthday gift and this cute card that she made:

JULY 18, 2025

I did it again. I let nearly another month go by before getting back in here and updating. Writing continues to be my least enjoyable creative endeavor, but ultimately (as in when I’m finished) I feel joy.

Today’s writing will begin with this blog, and then I need to move on to the book. A few days ago I received from the publisher the fourth proof of the book. I was thrilled that they finally sent me a Word document so that I can compare it to the original manuscript I sent to them. I thanked them profusely, but my joy was shortlived. After only a very cursory look at the manuscript I noticed that they changed the name Mary (as in Jesus’ mother) to Marie. Sigh. Fingers crossed that this doesn’t continue. I’ve already requested over 200 changes to their edits, which have not been completed. I continue to withhold payment.

As most people, we are having a busy summer. The major garden work is finished, now it’s all about the weeds!! And the !#@$$! chipmunks. I am in the process of monitoring the sun exposure of the semicirular bed at the end of the driveway, aka the birdhouse bed. Pedro is going to return in September to help me design and plant. Unfortunately, Norma will not be accompanying him. She is returning to Mexico to avoid incarceration. She’s been here for many, many years, but now she can’t move around much. Ana is having a going-away party for her on Saturday.

I just purchased three Russian sage from Sentry, and my friend, Eileen, is going to give me some of her beautiful day lillies. She is a member of the Day Lily Society, and her specimens are incredible. Here are some samples:

I am partial to the peach.

I had two birthday celebrations since last I wrote: Kathy’s and mine. I made my classic fish fry: parmesan/panko baked walleye, coleslaw, German potato salad, fries and rye bread and butter. Mary brought the dessert.

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This was a saying oft used by our grandmother, Myrtle Golden.

Can’t believe we are 74 and 73. Wow!

My birthday coincided with Mike and Patty’s Door County Weekend donation to our church auction. Other guests were Joanne Nelson, Kris Zirzow, Theodora and Nancy. Perfect weekend. Dan bought a carrot cake from Anne Luty, our favorite baker.

I went for a walk while in Door County, my usual from their place to White Dunes park. On the way, I am always curious to see what Barbie is up to. Usually the mailbox display shows Ken and Barbie in some seasonal romp. This time I was surprised to see the porch empty and Barbie and another woman in a sports car atop the roof. What’s up Barbie?

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Another mailbox has also been added to the attraction:

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Other lovely sites on my walk. The knots were part of an exhibition in the park office. I wonder if these are the same knots used in macrame. I was impressed by the letter from the governor and the calligraphied “proclamation.” I’m going to see if I can find out if it is done by hand or computer.

I also received a number of lovely cards and gifts from family and friends. A couple of them made me laugh. The first one is from Judy. It is reminiscent of a day in our 20s when we decided to go fishing. This was way before accurate weather forecasts. We found ourselves stuck in the middle of a storm. The wind was so strong that “we” had great difficulty returning the boat to the rental pier. I say “we” because Judy, being the stronger of the two of us, was doing the rowing. I remember trying to control my laughter as she glared at me over the top of her sunglasses, while using all her might to control the boat. We managed to make it to a pier a distance away from our destination, only to learn that we had to go back and retrieve it and return it to its proper home. I can’t remember how “we” did that, but the card is precious. The other, of me in the Raggedy Ann costume is from Mary, another flash from the past. And in the card group photo is a hibiscus, which was one in a pack of cards I made and gifted to Mickey.

I was enchanted by this video from the girls. Note Cordelia is still wearing the sweater I made for her when she was 3.

I have been impressed watching Dan’s rainwater-saving measures:

He is in charge of all the watering, and he lugs these gallon jugs all over the yard. Things are looking lovely, and I am happy that he doesn’t trust me to do it properly.

I can now share this gift that I penned for Terry Copeland. It took a while to reach her since the address lacked a P.O. Box, but on the second try she received it.

I have a number of pieces that I want to produce, but the book is taking priority right now. I want to get it over with. I have to limit my calligraphy time. But I’ll be back at it soon.

BTW, I’m graduating from the Dreaming in Script course on July 25th, 8 pm CST. It will be on Zoom. We have been encouraged to invite family and friends, so here you go: https://www.youtube.com/@masgrimes/streams. I’m quite sure it will be recorded.

Kathy and I met Timmy and Tom for lunch on Tuesday. We went to Ni Burmese, a fabulous Thai restaurant that I will definitely visit again. Tim gave us these mugs.

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Okay, on to the book…maybe tomorrow. This blog took me so long that I don’t have much time left. Dan and I are meeting Ken and Carlos (Spanish buddies) for a fish fry at Kegel’s.